Happy Friday, RISERS! I hope this week has been good to you. Here we are–the last day of February. How is that even possible? Just a reminder, we are getting closer to the Spring Forward time change next weekend. More on that next week. But for now, be sure to get a glimpse of the night skies for the planetary alignment.
Happy Birthday to all of you who turned a year older this past week. Also, Happy Anniversary to you and your loved one for reaching another milestone year together.
Quote of the Week: “Respect is appreciation of the separateness of the other person, of the ways in which he or she is unique.” Annie Gottlieb
Song of the Week: In 1967, Aretha Franklin released a re-recorded version of Otis Redding’s “RESPECT.” This song made it on the Rolling Stones list of the “500 Greatest Songs of All Time” in the number one slot. She talks about straight talk (sock it to me) and making sure one is treated with respect.
Joke of the Week: A good romance starts with trust, mutual respect, and kindness. A bad romance starts with Rah, Rah, Ah, Ah, Ah…
Nugget of Wisdom of the Week: I’m sure you have noticed the theme for this week…relationships. This week, I wanted to define what a relationship consists of and how to know if you are in a healthy one.
First of all, a relationship is considered healthy when founded on trust, respect, mutual support, and communication. These aspects are important whether in friendships or romantic relationships.
When both people feel heard and valued, that is a sign the relationship is going well. One person should not be elevated above the other.
It is equally important to the relationship to enjoy and encourage the other’s uniqueness as well as personal boundaries. This means that time spent together doing activities reflects the interests of both individuals.
When challenges appear, there is a give-and-take balance, as well as the commitment to get through the difficulties together. There is no blame game.
You know your relationships are healthy when you can express your thoughts and feelings without criticism. You don’t have the “Why can’t you be more like me” attitude and try to change anyone but value the differences. Jealousy and doubt do not plague the relationship, but you can count on encouragement and support. And finally, you absolutely love the time spent in each other’s company and lose track of time having fun.
Shout Out of the Week: This week, I want to give a shout-out to everyone who gives 110% in their relationships. Giving encouragement, respect, trust, and affection can take a toll on a person, but to give these things day in and day-out, is a tremendous thing. Thank you for giving to others!
Have a great weekend. Remember, you are most awesome, and YOU ROCK!
Marion Rhines is a foster-turned-adoptive parent. She lives in Knoxville, Tenn., with her husband and five children. She has written and published two children’s books as well as two foster-care-themed novels. She has a Facebook blog, Tips from the FLIP Side, and enjoys working with children of all ages.